A Poem for me...

THIS IS FOR U

ನೆನಪಿನ ಬುತ್ತಿಯಲ್ಲೊಂದು ಸಿಹಿಯಾದ ತುತ್ತು
ಗೆಳತಿ ನಿನ್ನೊಡನೆ ಕಳೆದ ಸವಿಯಾದ ಹೊತ್ತು.
ಕೈಯ ಹಿಡಿದು ಪುಟ್ಟ ಪುಟ್ಟ ಹೆಜ್ಜೆ ಇಟ್ಟು
ಆಡಿ ನಲಿದಾಡಿಗಳಿಸಿದ ಮುತ್ತಿನಂಥ ಸಂಪತ್ತು.
ಮುಂಜಾವಿನ ಇಬ್ಬನಿಯಂತೆ ಶುದ್ಧ
ಮುಸ್ಸಂಜೆಯ ರವಿಯಂತೆ ಸುಮಧುರ.
ಗೆಳತನಕೊಂದು ನವಿಲುಗರಿಯಂತೆ
ಗೆಳತಿ ನಿನ್ನ ಗೆಳೆತನ.

- Dhinakar Subramanya :D

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A 5 Day Story

One Day it so happened that, a 29yr woman was talking about the same aged man with her very friendly mother-in-law  for nearly about 45mins regarding a 5-day story. This is about a confused feeling mixed with a Shock when this man had come in front of her eyes with a face to face interaction on the 5^th day in the game of the destiny. In prior to all this, what incidents actually happened is narrated in this blog post.

The most memorable & unforgettable moments in her lifeJ

It is Just the incidence or a coincidence, I m unaware of. But it is true that I wish to narrate the whole story with a sense of refreshing memories.

Sometimes things that are related to past suddenly makes us feel “forget it maan....its all over” but again sometimes, refreshing memories gives us a second chance of experiencing pleasures that we haven’t enjoyed at the moment of actions….very much unable to descript with words. Same was the feeling of the lady who willingly narrated her story to me one day. Anyways, I am definite to share it.

Some time ago, there lived a simple girl at her 21st  year completed of her life in a small city. She struggled in bundle at her teenage facing many difficulties with her surroundings including at her family. For all this, the cause can be given as her innocence and unawareness towards practicality in life. She was very less exposed to the world’s reality. Now that she was 21 years and anyone would be shock to know that she was disgusted with life which was so very beautiful for the others of her age group. No interest in life, lost hope with people and friends …including her own family members… Apart from her, God must alone understand all her frustrations. She never stepped outside her own dreamy world borders as she was very happy dreaming. Never looked at who was around her too on her way on roads… she walks and walks with her dancing thoughts floating in her mind through her dreamy brown eyes. She went walking to her college...around 2kms away from her place. The poor girl used to walk all the way as an unseen captured with her own feelings.

Day-1

One day.....it so happened that she went walking as usual....and she saw a guy....standing with his bike in front of her at a 5mts distance and keeping a watch on her. His looks were strange and fishy. She found that she never remembered knowing him anytime before. Never seen or spoken too. Suddenly after certain distance, she realized….the guy was following her with back looks every now and then.

It is said that the guy wanted to be her friend as he had very less friends. At the same time, He asked his own heart and it said “You are simply wasting time as all of your friends have girl friends.” He felt the girl was quite interesting to be his friend. But the girl never believed in being a friend with a stranger.

Day-2

She also observed the same for another 2 days, irrespective of whatever time changes she made going to college. She was in a worry as she never wanted to be into all these stuffs. This confused girl was put into dynamo as to what to do. The girl guessed that the guy muss be trying to propose her as the Valentines Day was nearing, but again, the girl started thinking to escape from him by a phone call away to her friend to come and pick her. May be the intention of the guy was for the friendship but girl did not ever think like that because of her belief which said “why will a stranger make friendship with another stranger”??? The unspoken words were always a left back question mark in her mind.

Day-3

As usual the boy followed her till the college. And she never knew where he would come from and where he went later after she entered the gate of the college. This day evening, the girl was going on a walk with her mother to the nearby shop. The next cross of her residence she was passing by, she heard a male voice saying bye to someone. She turned to her left to see the same guy watching her from his home trying to drag her attention with a bye to one of his family member. Then she understood that it was his home and the secret of him subsequently follow her irrespective of time was because she used to pass by his house everyday. She realized that he watched her passing by and then started to follow. Her fear increased and decided to change the route from the very next day.

Day-4

She did not find the guy following her anymore. She could not see him anywhere. No wonder she had changed the route as well. Still her mind wondered for thoughts and there she gets a second thought that he might wait near college somewhere as he knows her everyday route. Upon that the V-Day was not too far. Never she gave any guy a chance to propose her anytime before. Now that this guy had dared to follow her, she worried he might dare to put forward as well. She sensed herself in a LOOSER’s position this V-Day. By this time the guy had made up his mind which I have described in Day-5.

Day-5

So....finally V-Day came..... Girl was scared to leave the house in the morning....She trembled in fear. She still was thinking of the alternative to do that day for her best escape. She dressed up and was ready for college as usual.

On the other side the guy was not aware about her fear at all and he was already under the conclusion that the girl was also interested to have his friendship. I still don’t understand what made him to think so. But still on V-Day the guy finally decided as he realized and thought it is not the way to deal with and thought of escaping completely.

As I know, no guy follows an unknown girl to make her friendship. Still the guy never agrees and reveals about his intention behind. He always concluded that it was to make a good friendship with her and nothing more. J  Henceforth as the guy says from his part of the story that he had made up his mind not to look at her also as he suddenly was enlightened that it was the age to study and not right time for all these. (A very common dialogue guys say to cover up their failure ;))

Here, at the girl’s residence, there was a twist in the story. She was suddenly stopped by her dad and he said...."You r not going to College today, as some marriage proposal is coming home. And it is not respectable to make the grooms parents to wait giving the reason of your college."

She convinced her dad that she will be backing home before the family of the proposal arrives. She had a reason of giving back the note books that she had borrowed from a friend (A very common escaping dialogues of girls’ right???). As promised she came back earlier and dressed for her first marriage interview. She dint find that guy that day also as she took her friend for pick and drop.

The proposal came and she was in room with tension. Also that she did not wanted to get married so soon...still was forced by parents. She was called to the living room where the family members had seated on sofas decently with broad smiles.

She was informed in prior that they had 2 sons and elder one is for the marriage ....Also informed about complexions that of elder’s is a bit darker than the younger. It happened like this, when she entered the living room, she first did namskara as a respect to his parents’ and saw a young fair guy beside the groom’s father. Since she had the information about the fair and dark complexions clues, she took him to be the younger brother for the groom and the other guy in a single sofa bent his head to 45 degrees down looking towards the floor with a shy gesture to be the groom himself and was in a huge utter shock to see the groom ..who was …none other than the guy who followed her from past four days and put her in hell lots of pain and tensions. She was confused at the same time shocked. She was bothered about her parents being positive for this proposal. Everything is time.

Groom’s father realizing the shrug in the girl’s eyes wondering as to who they were and wanting to know info’s about these confusing strange guys in a marriage proposal introduced the boys as his second son’s localized friends who came to guide them in this city. Girl was relieved and now countdown started for that guy to be in nervousnessJ.

He felt uneasy sitting in front of the girl and just walked out with his friend with a silly reason. Later the groom’s father and brother as a routine check before marriage, asked him about the girl’s character and behaviors. He had to tell something …and with god’s grace gave positive remarks befitting her.

He was a good boy with a very shy nature and never knows to convey. He told it like this, “She might be from good family background.”

To conclude …the girl got married. A Happy Ending was given by life to all these loving souls.

This girl is none other than the same 29 year woman (I told you in the starting few lines) narrating the whole story for the reason behind her confused face at her first rendezvous with her mom-in-law. Her mom-in-law’s biggest question mark of her daughter in law being confused on the very first day was now solved and she ended up with a wide beautiful smile. J 

This is a Real Incident. I still am confused to call it an Incident or a Co-incident.

Anyways, a very memorable 5-Day story, for both the guy and the girl. This unforgettable flash is creating a wonder of comedies after several years to them.

While it is refreshing their memories, I conclude it to be the game of destiny for them to meet taking shape in this form. After all this has occurred, they have retained a very good friendship after years. Everything is Time that takes you off your tracks and creates such a wonderful piece of life.

DREAMZ......

Hi,
There is no sunrise for me that I wake up without a dream. Dreams are an ingredient and art of my life. I initialize things by dreaming. Myself facing the mirror, you can spot me dreaming ;-). As an alternative of being single-handedly and getting bored, I believe in imaginings, thoughts and made dream a major time pass.

In our dreams we might see evils, divinity, good n bad... n many unimaginable things... for all these fears developed within our mind during our dreams, the only solution is that we need to be protected.

One fine morning I also dreamt a weird story line of our travel way... in which i sensed divinity n evils competition in occupying us. I realized few things way back home travelling after being safeguarded by our most deeply believed GOD.

I realized that we all are not that spiritually energized to fight against the evil powers that are due to our extra modern lifestyles that every common man lives in. No pujas performed on regular basis, not enough cleanliness maintained in mind and environment, reduced spiritual activities through out the world.

My thoughts flows down one after the other.

For those who do not believe in God and Devil, at least they have to believe according to Science in positive and negative sources … or at least in common terms Good and bad.

There is always good and bad and so there is always Positive and Negative … therefore there is always an existence of a God when there are devils and henceforth existence of devils when there is a God. We never realize until we experience. We need strength to at least defend. So we need to gain the strength required for the defensive moves.

What we practice at our home, watch us and safeguards when we travel out in all types of places.

No matter the place is negatively or positively keyed up; it is we who must be prepared to fight against. After all it is our own life that needs to be protected.
So we must prepare our own self protect. If we need to be safe in future, I decided I must start all rituals at home to energize good to fight against the bad.

All of a sudden I could hear the birds whispering to each other and opened my eyes, which were tightly clogged till now, to see the early morning’s orange sun striking my eyes all the way through my room’s window.
Now that I am out of the blue, realized I traveled all the way with evils and divinity in my good old sweet dreams. I learnt something out of my dream. As usual, my day never happened to be spanking new without my Dreamz…...

My Message:-
"Dreaming is an art …We can dream anything we want to… No one to hinder-No one to confine-No one to suppress… Just can simply consider the pleasure of Joy…Happiness and Contentment. Anytime you sense low, just connect to your dreamland to inspire thyself and experience the BLISS. Anyone might leave us unaided but our dreamz will never and our dream creation doors will be open anytime. SO NEVER FEEL LONESOME. STAY CHEERFUL FOR ETERNITY… KEEP SMILING…"

My own Love story--Which I myself Dint ever knew…. Really a great Feeling…

It so happened one day that my husband’s colleague, Mr.Karthik started to detail my love story on a chat which I never was aware of. It was a good feeling to experience a refreshed love within myself through the words he used to describe the story.
I would like to share this story with you all. Here it goes...

Chapter -1

Well there was this young boy, Harsha, who enjoyed simple pleasures & did not have much of teenage fun
By the force of destiny..
He was bound to have a journey of his lifetime
Little did he know about the day and place where he met his girl of his dreams
It was quite amazing how he found the artistic fiancé
A girl who was in her Karate suit
She moved like the waves on the sea....
Her flamboyance cast a spell on this young heart
It was not a coffee shop ....or the scenic park like Nicholas Sparks describes in a romantic novel
It was the most unlike place where heart beats synchronized in love
So little did this girl born & raised in South Mysore know about the boys feelings for her?
He gathered all his strength ....to do what no man had done
He asked her hands
She was quite not sure ....she was very conservative
She had seen world in a very much skewed point
She was not to be blamed …..it was her circle of influence
The Boy when he opened his heart and poured his love
She saw the Steel Horse riding cowboy who came to her rescue…
By the force of Destiny they were madly ….deeply in love with each other after their brief rendezvous at the Karate hall
He returned to his life in Bangalore, Now which had taken new turn ….
His folks were ready to find a bride
He wasn’t sure....if he was ready for the big event for his life
He was only 20 odd years
But only thing that kept him going was the Girl....
Her name was Aparna
His Coffee tasted better
His long rides on the Bike excited him thinking of her
His lived for her….every moment of his life

Chapter -2

It was late 90's where Mobile Phones where only seen on Sci-fi movies
Only option for the Boy was to gather his strength and make that call
She kept him hanging on line
He though in his mind…..
She's a Good Girl ....Loves her mother
Loves Horses & India too
She's a good Girl ….crazy about Ice cream ....
I am a bad boy….cos I can't even call her ..
Girl was in south Mysore..
For her the boy's approach was like a storm hitting a feather
He would give anything for those moments ....with that Girl
They say it is the crazy little thing called LOVE
He enjoyed the long drives from Bangalore to Mysore
Every hour spent with the Girl ….felt like an eternity
And every time he had to leave her behind
She would melt ....she would say to her self
“Every time he goes away ...he takes a piece of me with him”
This was the best time of their life


In fact, you know something????
Our marriage was a Typical Indian Arranged Marriage.

And you know the person who told this FULL BUNDLE story to this man was none other than my Husband himself... ;-)

I hope his Love for me remains same...but definitely 'yes' that the Story is always a fake for those who believe in it....

Inspire Life

Inspire Life
"Inspire Life" Inspires Life with self motivation quotes for the most confused minds and for the one in critical stages of life.
It condoles a painful heart and cheers up a demoralized mind, the lost and the dejected through its self inspiring words with a bit of spirit sprayed to strengthen the weaken......

By
Aparna Harsha


Dedicted To
My ♥Beloved Husband♥
My Forever Happiness……Harsha


My Words To You;

Life : Life is Beautiful;
Life is Colourful;
So is Life Worthful;
Colours of Life is defined by the eyes of the beholder,
Beauty, by the thought of the self surrounder;

Thinking : To make our Life Worthful,
Is in our own Positive Thinking,
Is in our own Way of Seeing;
By pouring “Life” into the unseen hearts of the non-living;
We can see, How Beautiful, - all the pity things around us can be;

Soul : Light your Soul, when it is with you,
Once it is gone from you, What can you do?
Enjoy each and every moment of pain,
Admire all moments of joy and play;
Challenge all the difficulties in you,
If lost, be sportive by showing what a self spirit can do;

Goal : “Opportunity knocks only once” – some say,
“Try try and try until you succeed” –that’s what I want to say;
First attempt cannot be succeeded in all cases;
Trying again n again will never fail for any of the challenging faces;
Each time you fail, you learn a new lesson;
Construct your Goal’s staircase, using it as your every stone;

Success : Be Bold and Confident,
That’s the initial spirit for your Goal;
Success is got by all your dedication,
And so the hunger for determination;
Your hard work yields good results,
Perseverance and Patience waits for what you deserve;

Result : Browse for all the interests and talents hidden within you,
Start cuddling it and forming for a tasty Milkshake and it you;
No one is bothered with those 101 reasons for the Loss
World sees only the Sweet Final Result, My dear Boss;

Path : Happy times… all will surround you,
Difficulty arises… vanished are those around you;
You are Alone, Life is a Challenge and Face it;
Dare to go ahead in life to see the hardest facts;
Nevertheless forget your past as a dark circle;
That has pushed you to see the brighter side of a wonderful world;

Pain : A stone is carved n carved,
Until it takes the shape of a beautiful sculpture,
So is a man, who tolerates pain,
In the routes to be a STAR of Success;
Look people above you to achieve, Fixing your goal to reach them;
Look people below you to encourage, “I are better than them”;

Desire : Be satisfied with whatever you have,
Limit your desires to live a peaceful journey of life;
‘Too much is too bad’, as good as ‘Too less is too sad’;
So plan to be a useful being on this land,
To enjoy every moment unplanned,
For the soul being alive or dead;

Love : Love is a peaceful journey in one part of life,
And it becomes a part of life at some part of journey;
We live happily when we are in Love,
But will forget that you are also happy because of the same Love;
Love has no caste n creed; Love has no status n style,
Still we fight, burying all the Happiness n purity of love;

Heart : Love is a bird with two wings flapping same time,
Lovers being the wings n Soul being one;
They are a grace of God n Angels, a couple Made in Heaven,
Waiting for the celebrations on Earth;
Dreaming for a beautiful future ahead,
If you can Bless them else don’t Curse them;

Memories : We forget all the Words spoken,
But can never forget what has happened;