ಖುಷಿ......

ಖುಷಿ......

ಖುಷಿ ಕೊಡುತ್ತೆ;

ಮುತ್ತುಗಳು  ಉದುರುವಂತೆ ನೀ ನಕ್ಕಾಗ ಖುಷಿ ಕೊಡುತ್ತೆ;

ಮೈಸೂರು ಮಲ್ಲಿಗೆಯಂತೆ ಸುವಾಸನೆ ಇರುತ್ತೆ ನೀ ಮಾತಾಡಿದಾಗ;

ಹುಣ್ಣಿಮೆ ಚಂದ್ರನಂತೆ ಹೊಳೆಯುವ ಆ ನಿನ್ನ ಕಣ್ಣು ಕಂಡಾಗ ಖುಷಿ ಕೊಡುತ್ತೆ; 

ಪುಟ್ಟ ಪುಟ್ಟ ಹೆಜ್ಜೆ ಇಟ್ಟು, ಬಣ್ಣದಂತ ಬಟ್ಟೆ ತೊಟ್ಟು ನಿನ್ನ ಕಂಡಾಗ ಖುಷಿ ಕೊಡುತ್ತೆ;

ಕಳ್ಳ ಕಪಟವಿಲ್ಲದ ಮುದ್ದಿನ ಗಿಣಿಯೆ ನೀ ನನ್ನ ಅಮ್ಮಮ್ಮ ಅಂದಾಗ ಖುಷಿ ಕೊಡುತ್ತೆ;

ಮಧು ಆರೋಗ್ಯವನ್ನು ಕೊಟ್ಟಂತೆ, ನೀ ಆನಂದವನ್ನು ಕೊಡುತ್ತೀಯ ಎಂದು ನೆನೆದಾಗ;

ಬಲು ಖುಷಿ ಕೊಡುತ್ತೆ;

- ಇಂತಿ ನಿನ್ನ ಅಮ್ಮಮ್ಮ 

A Concerning Passenger of my life…

 A Man, young n energetic, came down the line willingly sending a request for the purest form of Love - Friendship

I wondered who this stranger is… only to witness a common pal between u n me.

Though owning a common friend, u being a stranger to me…. I had no second thoughts to investigate bout u.

I said to myself… check out this man…

Few intros went on … exchanged photos n thoughts.

Frequencies said “MATCH FOUND”

Telephonic talks carried away pleasantly… n now… it was time to a rendezvous …

Anticipated by his arrival at my very first invite towards foregather,

I believed this Man to be Prompt n Outspoken.

Heart says; He is no doubt a trust worthy for the time I spend…

But still my mind said; be careful to completely depend…

Eye to Eye made me Shy…

Gifting me a pretty Smile in a while…

Meetings became frequent… so my trust strongly Consequent…

Illuminating the zest of fire… Accompanied by a desire …

Wished a Man like this… for my heart…

Truly Loyal n firm... he is from his side…

Committed to secure anyone even beside a tide...

Queried the Fate, why we met so late?

I indeed needed a friend like him so very long back…

But the Power of destiny listens only to Mr. Nobody

Confined Rules twisted for me to be with this Mr. Somebody

Confusion

Words plunging into the heart….

Piercing the mind….

Tugging the thoughts….

Raising the doubts… to do what n not

Thrusts – Twists – Turns

The only outcome creating heart burns?

Thoughts enters n exits

Hurts one on one until cracks

Dawning by the thwarting Frustration

Dusking down the sobbing Depression

Existing mixture of pain n cry addressed as Fusion

Worry not …Survival or not is the only Confusion

Amma

Amma

Love you Mom… for all the pain u took for me … n gave me such a Wonderful Life… Every Step I take makes me think of u … Every Route takes me Only to U…

Your words resounds in me every now n then…

Blocks me to do anything against your wish n concern…

Miss you in every happy moment of mine…

Need u besides me all the time …

Fulfilling your dreams is my aim…

Will do it for sure before I loose my name…

Never leave me alone…. Nor will I…

Let us stay for each other…. Till our souls die…

You are always my favorite… how can I lie…

Please Reject me not… else I cry…

Love you Mom… for all the pain u took for me … n gave me such a Wonderful Life… Every Step I take makes me think of u … Every Route takes me Only to U…

Amma … is the first word we are bound to teach any kid to realize the word’s specialty of its maximum usage in our day-to-day life. Every cute little angel on its first day on this earth greets their mom’s with the senses of touch that is prone to no language to understand or speak. They merely love their mom’s through the signs of Eyes, Expressions to feel the rhythm of love n care.

Eyes, Expressions, Emotions are the three E’s a mom can tackle with her kid. It is so very much related to each other that it can build ones life or ruin the same. This system of logic goes like this ….

Eyes: gives an Expression. Thru the speech of Eyes we are able to find the expressing factors of mind. It might be Happy or Sad, Agree or Disagree, Aggression or Depression…. and so on…

Expressions: creates Emotions. With the desired expressions we can create different emotions in the minds of the people surrounding us. A cheerful expression might create Happiness and a Sober face creates Sadness… similarly an aggressive man creates a havoc in the area n surroundings become aggressive to a greater extent … So this is in turn producing alike Emotions around the area where an Expression is being expressed.

Emotions: Emotions over again reciprocates thru the Eyes. Any Emotions hunting around in the mind are observed evidently within the Eyes… the very two small windows encapsulated with lenses acting as cameras from which this lovely beautiful world is seen n henceforth to admire, capture in our heart to retrace memories eternally. Entire Emotion family has got the Strength or in other words The Power… A Power of Enthusiasm or Encouragement. And likewise with Lethargy or Discouragement probably can be Anger or Fear as well.

Dependency (Mom n Nestling)

A mom looks into the eyes of her baby, instantly she would be saying something thru her eyes and her baby responds very much in turn. This baby sees at the eyes of its mom only to study the expressions n pops up with an emotion which will be cheering that little one to either proceed or to halt the succeeding move. This was exactly the mom’s instructions n road map routing the kid’s future by its mom. As time goes, similar situations arise n this process executes with the kid. The amount of Trust, belief, hopes and above all the dependency that the kid has got hooked-up also heightens. And Of course adequate intensity of dependency n possessiveness also is seen in Moms. Now that the kid is sprung up as an Adult, don’t you think the same reflects in the relation of a mom n her nestling???

Yes it will… n keeps continuing… such relations has to realize themselves at certain point of time and dilute the levels of possessiveness and dependency to avoid family breakups related to their nestling’s spouses. Whatsoever, but the affection and guidelines as a supporter that this individual would have gained by his mom will be his Backbone being a strong, secured and focused in every contribution of his success throughout the life.

Independency (Mom n Nestlings)

On the other hand, the latest mom’s are quite independent, career-oriented who tend to believe in leaving their kid to the crèche, besides expecting the child to be independent as well. Well, initially everything seems being fine. Can see mom earns well in numbers n is quite independent n happily enjoying life’s most beautiful youth. At the same time, kid in the crèche growing on its own with the other kids n prospering well in education and activities. They have a family to be told around. In these cases, as time walks Mother n baby bonding begins to shrink and prolongs to an extremely huge extent. The attitude of always looking up expecting from its mother keeps diluting eventually looking for its own ways of instructions and sketching its own route map. Chances of the kid to be prosperous might be definite but leading in the right path chances seems to be tremendously diluting. Same continues for years where these moms will be retiring off the job leading to promote their new designation towards Old age wherein here also they will be independent, practical, lonely moms. The child developed as an individual will be clambering alone competing every moment to succeed in life. How long can we expect an individual with a feeble heart, insecurity within and unfocussed views struggling in facing this world?

Causes: Due to the lack of affection n guidelines in the process of learning the rules of life in its childhood. Craving for love, care from a third person in this world will lead to his own problems getting overlapped causing complications. The child would be deserted from the rhythm of Love, care and affection.

The word Amma is itself such an inspiring factor, boosting our energy levels to the high spirits n pouring abundance of strengths to overcome all the difficulties in our life. She evolves as a care-taker being a Tutor, Guide terminating towards a True Friend.

Every time we cry or out of fear knowingly or unknowingly the word that comes out is Amma. That’s the bonding we all have with our Mothers. The bonding started from the time we were put our first breath… no doubt it will be till our last breath.

Pain

One Single Pain, Pains
Again n Again creating a Chain
Of Pains to Sustain
the Depth of Strain
Inducing the painful Migraine....

A Cry in Pain
Exclaiming from Within;
Contributing to Suppressions
Leading towards Depressions

Memories…..Somethings can never be Forgotten

Memories are sometimes Sweet n neat

Brings joy as well as tears

It makes us cry n dry

Kills with misery

Sometimes Excites n Encourages

And at last Fills with merriment

Memories become Everything when we have Absolute nothing

Cherishing the laughter and cries… Juss with a sweet blissful smile….

Thoughts…. Feelings…. Moments… Stories ….Pains… Words…

All are stored to combine n form Memories

Words spoken are usually forgotten

But Moments spent are always remembered

These Moments of life come into images

Only when all our lovely times are gone out of pages…

No matter those minutes are of sad or glad

As the best Sweet Memories.. always we had

Into this world…we drive in, As of this world we drive out

If you are approaching then u just move toward

If you are departing then bestow n depart …

Capable to be cherished forever…its Nothing but few Memories apart

Life is so loving…. allows everything to stream with its own free-will

And so flows our thoughts and proceedings… creating an instant power to chill

So rapidly that we evoke all our consequences of life

Into our very Sweet Memories … personified

Be in love with this Life

And breathe it to its best…

Inspire your each split second

To create the most excellent ingredient of your existence …

And now ensure to Capture your today’s moments

Towards crafting your tomorrow’s Sweet Memories

No matter those minutes are of sad or glad

As the sweetest ever Sweet Memories… Always we had J