Amma
Love you Mom… for all the pain u took for me … n gave me
such a Wonderful Life… Every Step I take makes me think of u … Every Route
takes me Only to U…
Your words resounds in me every now n then…
Blocks me to do anything against your wish n concern…
Miss you in every happy moment of mine…
Need u besides me all the time …
Fulfilling your dreams is my aim…
Will do it for sure before I loose my name…
Never leave me alone…. Nor will I…
Let us stay for each other…. Till our souls die…
You are always my favorite… how can I lie…
Please Reject me not… else I cry…
Love you Mom… for all the pain u took for me … n gave me
such a Wonderful Life… Every Step I take makes me think of u … Every Route
takes me Only to U…
Amma … is the first word we are bound to teach any kid to
realize the word’s specialty of its maximum usage in our day-to-day life. Every
cute little angel on its first day on this earth greets their mom’s with the senses
of touch that is prone to no language to understand or speak. They merely love
their mom’s through the signs of Eyes, Expressions to feel the rhythm of love n
care.
Eyes, Expressions, Emotions are the three E’s a mom can tackle
with her kid. It is so very much related to each other that it can build ones
life or ruin the same. This system of logic goes like this ….
Eyes: gives an
Expression. Thru the speech of Eyes we are able to find the expressing factors
of mind. It might be Happy or Sad, Agree or Disagree, Aggression or Depression….
and so on…
Expressions: creates
Emotions. With the desired expressions we can create different emotions in the
minds of the people surrounding us. A cheerful expression might create
Happiness and a Sober face creates Sadness… similarly an aggressive man creates
a havoc in the area n surroundings become aggressive to a greater extent … So
this is in turn producing alike Emotions around the area where an Expression is
being expressed.
Emotions: Emotions
over again reciprocates thru the Eyes. Any Emotions hunting around in the mind
are observed evidently within the Eyes… the very two small windows encapsulated
with lenses acting as cameras from which this lovely beautiful world is seen n
henceforth to admire, capture in our heart to retrace memories eternally. Entire
Emotion family has got the Strength or in other words The Power… A Power of Enthusiasm or Encouragement. And likewise with
Lethargy or Discouragement probably can be Anger or Fear as well.
Dependency (Mom n
Nestling)
A mom looks into the eyes of her baby, instantly she would
be saying something thru her eyes and her baby responds very much in turn. This
baby sees at the eyes of its mom only to study the expressions n pops up with an
emotion which will be cheering that little one to either proceed or to halt the
succeeding move. This was exactly the mom’s instructions n road map routing the
kid’s future by its mom. As time goes, similar situations arise n this process
executes with the kid. The amount of Trust, belief, hopes and above all the
dependency that the kid has got hooked-up also heightens. And Of course adequate
intensity of dependency n possessiveness also is seen in Moms. Now that the kid
is sprung up as an Adult, don’t you think the same reflects in the relation of
a mom n her nestling???
Yes it will… n keeps continuing… such relations has to
realize themselves at certain point of time and dilute the levels of
possessiveness and dependency to avoid family breakups related to their
nestling’s spouses. Whatsoever, but the affection and guidelines as a supporter
that this individual would have gained by his mom will be his Backbone being a
strong, secured and focused in every contribution of his success throughout the
life.
Independency (Mom n
Nestlings)
On the other hand, the latest mom’s are quite independent,
career-oriented who tend to believe in leaving their kid to the crèche, besides
expecting the child to be independent as well. Well, initially everything seems
being fine. Can see mom earns well in numbers n is quite independent n happily
enjoying life’s most beautiful youth. At the same time, kid in the crèche
growing on its own with the other kids n prospering well in education and
activities. They have a family to be told around. In these cases, as time walks
Mother n baby bonding begins to shrink and prolongs to an extremely huge extent.
The attitude of always looking up expecting from its mother keeps diluting eventually
looking for its own ways of instructions and sketching its own route map. Chances
of the kid to be prosperous might be definite but leading in the right path chances
seems to be tremendously diluting. Same continues for years where these moms
will be retiring off the job leading to promote their new designation towards Old
age wherein here also they will be independent, practical, lonely moms. The
child developed as an individual will be clambering alone competing every
moment to succeed in life. How long can we expect an individual with a feeble
heart, insecurity within and unfocussed views struggling in facing this world?
Causes: Due to the lack of affection n guidelines in the
process of learning the rules of life in its childhood. Craving for love, care
from a third person in this world will lead to his own problems getting
overlapped causing complications. The child would be deserted from the rhythm
of Love, care and affection.
The word Amma is itself such an inspiring factor, boosting our
energy levels to the high spirits n pouring abundance of strengths to overcome
all the difficulties in our life. She evolves as a care-taker being a Tutor, Guide
terminating towards a True Friend.
Every time we cry or out of fear knowingly or unknowingly the
word that comes out is Amma. That’s the bonding we all have with our Mothers.
The bonding started from the time we were put our first breath… no doubt it will
be till our last breath.